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your child SHY with MEET NEW PEOPLE

When a visitor comes, Dita just peeking out from behind the curtain. When Mom told him to go out and get acquainted, Dita shook his head. But when the guests had gone home, then your child will asking so many thing, variety of questions out of her tiny mouth. "who had his name, Mother? Beautiful yes, Mam? His home, Mam? Why carry a big bag, Mam?

The embarrassment of actually appears as a picture of children have started to recognize her strengths and weaknesses. The term psychological self-understanding or understanding of oneself. Usually it starts at the age of about one and a half years. For example, the child already knows her hair curly or straight, thin or fat body. Now enter the age of three, along with the development way of thinking, the child was unconscious when other people can assess themselves in a certain way.

As a first step is to train it dared to create conditions so that children often meet other people. Introduce early socialization. For parents who are busy working, take advantage of the holiday to stimulate the socialization of the child. When going invitation for example, encourage your child to participate. There he will see and meet many people, he got to know the crowd. Remember also that caregivers do not brood of children at home all day. Occasionally take the child away to public places like parks not far from home, or accompany him to play with neighborhood children.

Giving children the freedom to make decisions may also establish its identity. Since the age of three years of his confidence is growing that he felt able to do all by yourself. At that time, his ego began to emerge. He knows what to do and what not, until finally he can form a concept of self is intact. When children feel they can do many things, the concept itself will be positive. Conversely, if he was often attacked by the negative things the child will be hard to believe myself.

The child who was always embarrassed to talk with others, it could be because he was often heard words like, "do do so at Uncle and Aunt, it's not good. It's not polite. "Alternatively, a response like," the child do not shout so, too lordly, noisy! "Be careful, this could also make a child ashamed to be singing voice. Well, so, parents also need to pay attention to his words for ya baby ..