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An old saying from Germany said, "We can do anything with the kids, only when we play with them."

Child's world is a world full of imagination, so it is not surprising that many education experts who teach the methods of fun learning and playing while learning.

Just as in the case of young mothers. At the beginning of the mother to give support in the form of gifts, perhaps once a child's mother was found a new game that challenges to conquer. But in a way, it is not impossible, if he finds a boring routine for him so easily distracted by his friends.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of data that we have not understood from the case of the mother, such as for example, whether there is agreement schedule for children to learn and play, whether he studied in its own special place or in a place that is easy to get distracted, and so forth. However, some of these tips we're trying to ask:

1. Grow your self-esteem regardless of the outcome studies.

One factor that can reduce the interest of the child to achieve good performance is the lack of confidence. It arises because whatever the outcome, the edges are the pressure (to maintain the achievements so that children become stressed) or disapproval (to improve performance so that the child becomes too stressful). Each individual has different ways in dealing with stressful situations, but among the various ways that, in fact only be divided in two forms, namely "Fight (face) or flight (run). Therefore, encouraging the child with words like "mother's brother believes could", "believe that younger women can be trusted to be responsible" and so on, is one method of motivation that is able to attach emotional bonds children and parents.

2. Schedule mutually agreed

Invite children to learn together to agree on a schedule to train the child to practice responsibility. In addition, the mother was also easier to provide supervision so that children did not feel always being chased by an obligation to learn.

3. Time to play

Useful for scheduling with release of children in determining playing time he likes. That way, children will learn the discipline of doing his duty as well as relaxed because he knows that he can play your heart in the hours agreed

4. A special place to learn and quiet

As much as possible, if indeed the condition can be adjusted, ie the child has a special place to learn with as little disruption as possible (as close to the television and so on). It also trains the child to concentrate fully for hours of learning

5. Mentoring is fun

There are times when the child difficulty doing certain problems. In most cases, the parents leave the task of this assistance to the tutor or other people. This could potentially lead to pessimism in children that the parents themselves do not afford. Giving gifts is one method for growing desire of children, however, be less effective when children are under pressure to get the prize. Therefore, parents need to occasionally take the time to accompany children in fun and without pressure, so the children comfortable and trusting of their parents.

Some tips to try so we asked. If there is information that the mother wants to convey, we will be happy to discuss with the mother.

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your child SHY with MEET NEW PEOPLE

When a visitor comes, Dita just peeking out from behind the curtain. When Mom told him to go out and get acquainted, Dita shook his head. But when the guests had gone home, then your child will asking so many thing, variety of questions out of her tiny mouth. "who had his name, Mother? Beautiful yes, Mam? His home, Mam? Why carry a big bag, Mam?

The embarrassment of actually appears as a picture of children have started to recognize her strengths and weaknesses. The term psychological self-understanding or understanding of oneself. Usually it starts at the age of about one and a half years. For example, the child already knows her hair curly or straight, thin or fat body. Now enter the age of three, along with the development way of thinking, the child was unconscious when other people can assess themselves in a certain way.

As a first step is to train it dared to create conditions so that children often meet other people. Introduce early socialization. For parents who are busy working, take advantage of the holiday to stimulate the socialization of the child. When going invitation for example, encourage your child to participate. There he will see and meet many people, he got to know the crowd. Remember also that caregivers do not brood of children at home all day. Occasionally take the child away to public places like parks not far from home, or accompany him to play with neighborhood children.

Giving children the freedom to make decisions may also establish its identity. Since the age of three years of his confidence is growing that he felt able to do all by yourself. At that time, his ego began to emerge. He knows what to do and what not, until finally he can form a concept of self is intact. When children feel they can do many things, the concept itself will be positive. Conversely, if he was often attacked by the negative things the child will be hard to believe myself.

The child who was always embarrassed to talk with others, it could be because he was often heard words like, "do do so at Uncle and Aunt, it's not good. It's not polite. "Alternatively, a response like," the child do not shout so, too lordly, noisy! "Be careful, this could also make a child ashamed to be singing voice. Well, so, parents also need to pay attention to his words for ya baby ..

Trauma in our lovely children, baby, kids

Children are not born to be a "troublemaker" because the environment was such a personal form.

The situation is very little emotion during the child-oriented attitudes of father and mother. Children who live in the middle of parents who are not in harmony, almost the most part, grow up to be a brat.

As a result the child will find different ways to get out of disharmony in the house.

When Dad and Mom quickly realized that the child be stubborn because of the situation at home, do not despair to reach more children.

Encourage children to talk heart to heart. Give an explanation that the father and mother often fight does not mean the family will split up, but rather to equate opinions.

Outside of a problem, immediately correct the communication between the father and mother so that the quantity of contention can be reduced.

The problem becomes more complicated when the child can not be controlled while the parents are not at peace even more often noisy.

Child trauma eventually be feared. He was puzzled to choose between right or wrong attitude. Moreover, if the father or mother blaming each other for juvenile delinquents. Psychologically, the child will be more depressed.

If it were so need the help of a psychologist to help children out of the trauma.

* Source: Morinaga Platinum

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