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An old saying from Germany said, "We can do anything with the kids, only when we play with them."

Child's world is a world full of imagination, so it is not surprising that many education experts who teach the methods of fun learning and playing while learning.

Just as in the case of young mothers. At the beginning of the mother to give support in the form of gifts, perhaps once a child's mother was found a new game that challenges to conquer. But in a way, it is not impossible, if he finds a boring routine for him so easily distracted by his friends.

Unfortunately, there are a lot of data that we have not understood from the case of the mother, such as for example, whether there is agreement schedule for children to learn and play, whether he studied in its own special place or in a place that is easy to get distracted, and so forth. However, some of these tips we're trying to ask:

1. Grow your self-esteem regardless of the outcome studies.

One factor that can reduce the interest of the child to achieve good performance is the lack of confidence. It arises because whatever the outcome, the edges are the pressure (to maintain the achievements so that children become stressed) or disapproval (to improve performance so that the child becomes too stressful). Each individual has different ways in dealing with stressful situations, but among the various ways that, in fact only be divided in two forms, namely "Fight (face) or flight (run). Therefore, encouraging the child with words like "mother's brother believes could", "believe that younger women can be trusted to be responsible" and so on, is one method of motivation that is able to attach emotional bonds children and parents.

2. Schedule mutually agreed

Invite children to learn together to agree on a schedule to train the child to practice responsibility. In addition, the mother was also easier to provide supervision so that children did not feel always being chased by an obligation to learn.

3. Time to play

Useful for scheduling with release of children in determining playing time he likes. That way, children will learn the discipline of doing his duty as well as relaxed because he knows that he can play your heart in the hours agreed

4. A special place to learn and quiet

As much as possible, if indeed the condition can be adjusted, ie the child has a special place to learn with as little disruption as possible (as close to the television and so on). It also trains the child to concentrate fully for hours of learning

5. Mentoring is fun

There are times when the child difficulty doing certain problems. In most cases, the parents leave the task of this assistance to the tutor or other people. This could potentially lead to pessimism in children that the parents themselves do not afford. Giving gifts is one method for growing desire of children, however, be less effective when children are under pressure to get the prize. Therefore, parents need to occasionally take the time to accompany children in fun and without pressure, so the children comfortable and trusting of their parents.

Some tips to try so we asked. If there is information that the mother wants to convey, we will be happy to discuss with the mother.

May be useful! ^ _ ^

your child SHY with MEET NEW PEOPLE

When a visitor comes, Dita just peeking out from behind the curtain. When Mom told him to go out and get acquainted, Dita shook his head. But when the guests had gone home, then your child will asking so many thing, variety of questions out of her tiny mouth. "who had his name, Mother? Beautiful yes, Mam? His home, Mam? Why carry a big bag, Mam?

The embarrassment of actually appears as a picture of children have started to recognize her strengths and weaknesses. The term psychological self-understanding or understanding of oneself. Usually it starts at the age of about one and a half years. For example, the child already knows her hair curly or straight, thin or fat body. Now enter the age of three, along with the development way of thinking, the child was unconscious when other people can assess themselves in a certain way.

As a first step is to train it dared to create conditions so that children often meet other people. Introduce early socialization. For parents who are busy working, take advantage of the holiday to stimulate the socialization of the child. When going invitation for example, encourage your child to participate. There he will see and meet many people, he got to know the crowd. Remember also that caregivers do not brood of children at home all day. Occasionally take the child away to public places like parks not far from home, or accompany him to play with neighborhood children.

Giving children the freedom to make decisions may also establish its identity. Since the age of three years of his confidence is growing that he felt able to do all by yourself. At that time, his ego began to emerge. He knows what to do and what not, until finally he can form a concept of self is intact. When children feel they can do many things, the concept itself will be positive. Conversely, if he was often attacked by the negative things the child will be hard to believe myself.

The child who was always embarrassed to talk with others, it could be because he was often heard words like, "do do so at Uncle and Aunt, it's not good. It's not polite. "Alternatively, a response like," the child do not shout so, too lordly, noisy! "Be careful, this could also make a child ashamed to be singing voice. Well, so, parents also need to pay attention to his words for ya baby ..

Trauma in our lovely children, baby, kids

Children are not born to be a "troublemaker" because the environment was such a personal form.

The situation is very little emotion during the child-oriented attitudes of father and mother. Children who live in the middle of parents who are not in harmony, almost the most part, grow up to be a brat.

As a result the child will find different ways to get out of disharmony in the house.

When Dad and Mom quickly realized that the child be stubborn because of the situation at home, do not despair to reach more children.

Encourage children to talk heart to heart. Give an explanation that the father and mother often fight does not mean the family will split up, but rather to equate opinions.

Outside of a problem, immediately correct the communication between the father and mother so that the quantity of contention can be reduced.

The problem becomes more complicated when the child can not be controlled while the parents are not at peace even more often noisy.

Child trauma eventually be feared. He was puzzled to choose between right or wrong attitude. Moreover, if the father or mother blaming each other for juvenile delinquents. Psychologically, the child will be more depressed.

If it were so need the help of a psychologist to help children out of the trauma.

* Source: Morinaga Platinum

its some kind like a solution for carer women as you, if you wanna work, but you have a baby, little one. what you gonna do? cancel your works or you got Nanny? its depend on you. and now, i will give some reason why we need Nanny to take care about our children. so can go to work on.
Baby sitter often become an important family needs, especially for parents who are both working. Although the supposed role baby sitter caring for children only when parents are working, but that role began to shift. When father and mother there was, sometimes still take care of baby sitter.

The scenery is also common when a family trip to the mall. Father and mother of the little fun to see your bag or shoes, the child remained alone with the sitter. There was even a mother who would leave their children in the salon cream bath, while the child remains with her baby sitter.

Actually, these conditions are less ideal for the child. Therefore, the lack of contact with the parent making the child lacks a strong emotional bond. There is even an anecdote that says that the child is not the father-mother, but the child's baby sitter.

Of course you do not want to make your child a 'child' baby sitter is not it? If you want to receive the love child instead of guardians, but really from you, do certain things that your child continues to feel safe, happy, and get attention from her parents.
Start with the events that are not done routinely every day, such as holidays. Plan your vacation with a little more intimate and warm, without the presence of someone other than the father and mother. Make sure that you and your partner will not vacation without the hassles of an assistant who used to help child care.

The first step is to plan. For example, going on vacation to grandma's house outside of town. Make a list of the small luggage. Your child needs to be prioritized. Ensure the needs of food, clothing, and baby's favorite toys are not left behind. If all the equipment your child is certainly not complete and no one else, needs to prepare a new mother's father.

For any child needs, prepare two different bags. One bag of clothing and equipment that are not urgent. Another one bag for food and goods at all times necessary, such as oil and diapers Telon. This separation will facilitate you if your child is hungry or pup. While the bag is placed in the trunk only, because it does not need open-opening.

Your child's favorite toy is an effective travel companions. Whether you go by private car or by public transportation, make sure your child's favorite toy at his side. Usually quite calm if your child his favorite toy beside him. But if his favorite item is missing, get ready to listen to the whining child or your child struggling with a rolling left and right.
Prepare also supplies documentation such as cameras or camcorders. Recording devices are required to record the important moments and fun between father-mother and child. Certainly a great loss if it had traveled for hours to grandma's house, but no photograph your child with his grandmother or his brothers.

Not only to record events at the destination, the image recording device can also be used to record events during the trip. For example, when stopped to eat at a restaurant, as well capture it. Once back at home father and mother can make a review and tell the journey back to the little guy. After that try to tell the child was asked again about his trip.

If you prepare a proper holiday and thoroughly, without the presence of any baby sitter, vacations can still be cool and not too much trouble. This way of making your child more impressive, because he really got the attention of parents, not from his baby sitter. (bny RORA :) )

how to take care your lovely twin




if you Have twins children, its mean that  they are nurturing the double fatigue as well as double happiness.

Some parents will feel that the first year of life with twins was a bit chaotic. But do not worry, all the processes it will pass with a fun, happy at the same time. To that end, here are some ways to care for twins easier.

Preparation of double
Do all things necessary to welcome the arrival of the twins. In the last months of pregnancy, join a club twins in your community. Attend meetings which they held before the child is born. And continue at least until the first year or two. There is no better source than experienced parents who share tips on saving time and energy to care for the child.

Double Team
The involvement of fathers in single baby is a choice, but with twins is a must. All child-care tasks that must be done very carefully, can be shared with my father. You may not be able to do the loving care all the time. But just do the best thing you can do with the resources you have.

Provision of milk for both
Try to feed them in a simultaneous schedule. When dad was home, and nursing time, then each of the mothers and fathers-will be able to feed the child at the same time.

Double duty
Try to schedule the twins sleep at the same time. By having two times the same bed, it helps establish a routine that consistently breaks during the day. And in the early months, it is not possible without a shower with four hands. Try to do it one by one. Children at an early age do not need a bath every day anyway, Mom. Bathe the baby one time today, another tomorrow, and so on.

Multiple settings
With the birth of twins, it takes good time management. Do the things that really need to do, and leave the rest to others. Ask your friends who care for the twins as tired to prepare food quickly, for example.

Bedding
Rather than put a child in a separate box, most twins will be faster and more restful sleep peacefully when placed side by side or facing each face in the same box. Do not they have been united in their mother's womb for nine months.

Search help
If overwhelmed, hire a nanny for at least the early months.

Double baby pickup bag
Children are often not picked up will often cry. Experienced parents have learned that parenting model as it would calm the children. Do this for the twins. Cries of a child who will make another child cry, whine and cumulative effect of this double nervous parent can be stressful. For that, take them out walking around. The scene outside can brighten up your mind when you feel so saturated with the housekeeping.

Dual supervision
If you have a problem, to tell your twins apart, try the following label: put the bracelet, hair cut with different pieces, as well as clothing. Forcing everything to the same department of the twins is the process of identifying the bad and wrong. So should, distinguish it from everything. As soon as the twins grow older, even though identical twins, they will develop a unique feature.

Give the name of the twins
Keep in mind in mind that you take care of two individuals, not twins. Call them by name each one, not just "the twins"

Similar but not equal
Once this small pair grew up, be prepared when they play a confusing role. Specificity because they liked to be twins, but they also want to be treated as individuals. One time they might want to dress the same, another day they want to dress differently. Follow the path alone, treat them equally when they want to be a twin and when they want to be different individuals.

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Let Our kid's playing with Older friends

Lila, a new one before the age of one year, it's good to play with Alex (9 years), his cousin who lives right in front of the house. Alex too. "Lila fat and funny," so it's 3rd grade students to comment. And Lila essentially nothing "Sister Adam". Sister playing with Alex, his sister meal together, even the school wants to participate.

Mother, playing with friends that sometimes bigger is more fun for the little guy. No wonder the little guy because the environment is still limited. The most familiar are the ones closest to parents, caregivers, om or aunt who lived at home, or if your child is not the first child, my brother is a playmate.

Therefore it is not surprising that at this age children really enjoyed the role play or pretend play. Mainly follow what is done by a friend or an older sibling. Perhaps he considered, they first do while he was just starting to try. And it's a new challenge for the little guy.

What must be remembered, pretending behavior is supported by the desire to explore with the children show a variety of attitudes. In addition, gross and fine motor skills has also been supportive. He can walk, run, jump, and so forth. His imagination was already starting to grow. It's just that there are children who proceed faster, some are slow to do it.

Thus, although the child's behavior had demonstrated a desire to go to school, following his brother, for example. Parents should not have to respond to the wishes of the minor to serious. Look at the child's symptoms indicated. Normally when such behavior arises only after some time and left bored, then maybe he's just doing impersonation.

But for just a little fun, there's nothing wrong with your child to school to play big brother. Let him feel the school is like. When he was just playing on the playground, perhaps his desire was just there.

Mother, when your child starts socializing sometimes do occur or the nature of the transfer. Character of the child since the toddler was already beginning to show. There are types of difficult children who cry and refuse to be set only; any type of child that's easy to set up easy and quiet nature, and there are children who possess a combination of the two characters did. Characters that children can change depending on circumstances and conditions, as well as the environment that influence it. One of the environmental factors that influence it are the ones that are close to the child. Usually the longer and a lot of experience, the personal character of its original form.

In addition, the attention factor could be the trigger of a child to be "followers" of people / friends is greater. Whether it's attention in the form of praise, ridicule, or other things that can please the child. For example, when children imitate the behavior of his brother who likes scratching their heads, parents or anyone else who saw it laughed heartily, or at least gave him a smile. Well, with a laugh or a smile before the child was the center of attention, and he will continue to maintain that imitation.

In order to give it special attention, while monitoring it. When he followed a positive behavior, praise. Conversely, if the negative behavior that he had copied from "the adults" give little warning and explain that this is not true. Not difficult, Mother ...?